Julie walked into my room and I tried to size up what was at first glance a benign instance of students just acting like fifteen-year-olds. Julie looked cute in a Hello Kitty shirt and jeans and seemed to be in her normal mood. I was unsure of when Hello Kitty had made a comeback from my 1980's childhood, but over the past few years even the high schoolers sported Hello Kitty backpacks, hoodies, and an occasional hair clip. Nothing seemed alarming or distressing.
So, I focused my attention on Abby. Abby had obviously seen the post on Julie's Wall as she had clicked on the "Report Abuse" option and tagged the post as "Bullying." She was looking down and biting her nails and looked seriously uncomfortable in her own skin. Julie and Abby did not seem to be particularly close, and I had a lack of any sort of intuition or sense of what was going on. I pulled Abby aside and asked why she had flagged the comment on Julie's Wall. After all, it only said, "Nice shirt."
Abby, a quiet, calm, mind-her-own-business kind of young lady was overtly distraught. She told me Julie was being picked on by three girls, one of whom had posted the "Nice shirt." comment. She explained that the girls were relentless in their verbal attacks and honed in on Julie's clothing, hair, lack-of-makeup, voice, walk, lunch choice, etc. You name it, they criticized it. Abby overheard them every day in a shared class, but was too scared to stand up for Julie and of potential backlash from the three others. When asked what the teacher was doing about it, she assured me the teacher had no idea. Abby said they were incredibly careful to not get caught, but that the teasing had been going on for weeks. Today the girls had specifically targeted Julie's shirt as being ugly, juvenile, and other choice adjectives reserved only for hateful commentary. I assured Abby her anonymity and that she did the right thing.
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It was simply heartbreaking.In talking to Julie afterward, she reluctantly confirmed the situation. She seemed frightened, humiliated, dismal- and then relieved when we told her that it was all over. Julie had no idea of the comment on her Wall (which we deleted, but was reserved as concrete evidence in the My Big Campus reporting system) as she had not logged in to My Big Campus since it had been posted only thirty minutes earlier. We called her parents in to talk and they were also completely unaware of Julie's dilemma at school. They had, however, noticed an unusual reluctance to attend school, refusal to participate in extra-curricular events, and being generally withdrawn. Julie attributed this all to this vexatious and exasperating few weeks, which began when she had inadvertently tripped one of the three in a PE volleyball game. She wore a brave, care-free face at school, then admitted to going home in depression and distress, often crying alone in her room.
Fast-forward to a few weeks later when all three girls had been dealt with from a discipline standpoint and I saw Julie laughing at a basketball game. I was thrilled to see her enjoying her high school years without worrying about threatening banter and other antics. In processing how she had gotten to this much more peaceful, healthier place, several aspects of how My Big Campus is such a safe platform jumped out at me.
#1- Users report abuse. It wasn't even Julie herself that had reported abuse. ANY user that sees ANYTHING suspicious is encouraged to report it. With the flags going to specific designees, this reporting can be kept anonymous if necessary. Furthermore, by designating several recipients in a building or district, students and parents can be assured that reaction times will be swift.
#2- Reporting. The My Big Campus reports can be generated by both teachers and administration to see any and all activity- whether deleted or not. Reports can be filtered by type of input, user, time frames, and keywords. Since all activity is archived, there is no question when it comes to user activity.
#3- No anonymity. There are no untraceable posts, uploads, messages, commentary, or actions. All activity is traceable back to a verified user...and speaking of which...
#4- 100% verified users. Every account is initiated by a verified educator. Each user actually exists and is tied to one user account. This makes activity monitorable and holds all users accountable for their on-line behavior. 100% verified users also means no spam accounts or false activity.
#5- Profanity filter and flesh-tone image scanning. All content has to make it through a Spanish and English profanity filter in order to be posted. Comments including lewd or tasteless verbage will not be displayed. All images are also scanned to be sure they only include files appropriate for school. As an added safety measure, all videos are also watched from start to finish in the MBC shared resource Library.
*all identifying information for students has been changed